If you were to rely on profile descriptions to find your soul mate(Buscar Pareja), I can assure you, you would be looking for a long time. I have always had my doubts that this is the type of forum in which one is likely to find a true soul mate anyway, perhaps I'm a little pessimistic. I know there are many people around the globe that have found true love online. For that reason alone and despite my doubts I do advocate online dating as a legitimate force in the search for a partner(Encontrar Pareja). It's just that traditionally we would be attracted by sight, (a visual first impression) at least to begin with. As photos are often rare on female profiles it kind of cuts that principle out. Initial attraction has to come from what you discover in a member's profile.
Apart from the list of checked items of interests on a profile the only way to discover something about someone or what they are looking for in a partner(Buscar Pareja) is by way of the profile descriptions. On most sites when setting up a profile you are asked to provide a description of yourself and of your ideal partner in a minimum of 100 words. It surprises me how many women find that difficult. When you think about it 100 words isn't a big ask, it's about a paragraph or so.
I am always amused at the way in which some girls will go about describing themselves. Whatever the personality type there is no end to the ways in which people are able to emulate themselves.
Also interesting is what the women are looking for in their ideal partner! I have read a number of profiles over the years where the sentiments are often repeated. In fact some profile descriptions are so stereo typical that you can sometimes feel you're reading the same one over and over. Just as you're getting bored though it appears there will always be something to jump out and surprise you. Remember, there are thousands of members on these dating sites and it can be tedious at times pouring through the pile.
Some profiles don't leave much to the imagination with regard to priorities. Although the wording changes on each, the themes are often very typical. I wonder if any of these oversexed women would approach a male at a party, club, bar, crowded bus stop or anywhere else for that matter, and ask the kind of questions put forward on their profiles.
I have always found it amusing how certain women will describe their Mr. Right! There seems to always be repetition in the choice of adjectives describing their ultimate partners. They will typically include some of my personal favorites like honest, caring, funny, sensitive and the like. As amusing as it is though, these profiles are actually the needles to look out for in the haystack. They will often be the most genuine of potential partners.
Daunting as the prospect may appear at times as you pour through the seemingly endless profiles, you can take some solace in the fact that there will often be amusement along the way. I will never forget very early on in my searching days a profile that read something like this: " My ideal partner will be Intelligent, Tall (er than 5 foot 8), Well Educated, Lots of fun, Down to earth, Rich, Very Rich, Very Very Very Rich, Over 90 years of age, have a bad heart (or any other life threatening complaints), No kids or ex wives, Willing to leave me all his money, And his houses, apartments and condos. Yes I want the BMW too. Diamonds! I want diamonds! A private plane wouldn't go astray.... and maybe a harem of naked male slaves to fulfill my every desire? Oh!! I want a Porsche!! It has to be a red one, because red cars go faster. It's a well documented fact. You have to agree with a sense of humor like that you would certainly attract a few suitors."
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